Episode Description

On this episode of The Erica Diamond Podcast, we are going there.

I’m tempted to say, let’s talk about sex, baby… because that is exactly where today’s conversation takes us. My guest is Natassia Miller, sexologist, intimacy coach, and founder of Wonderlust, a New York City-based sexual wellness brand.

In this honest and refreshing conversation, we talk about intimacy, marriage, desire, pleasure, modern relationships, and what it really means to stay connected over time.

Because intimacy, connection, communication, and pleasure are all part of wellness too. And if self-care is about caring for our whole selves, then sexual self-care belongs in that conversation too.

Key Takeaways:

• Intimacy is not separate from wellness.
  A healthy sex life is part of a healthy life. Pleasure, connection, communication, and emotional safety all matter.
• Long-term relationships do not stay passionate by accident.
  Desire in marriage requires intention, curiosity, honesty, and a willingness to keep learning each other.
• Emotional betrayal is real.
  In today’s world, boundaries are not always physical. Emotional affairs, sexting, and digital intimacy can deeply impact trust.
• Healing after infidelity is possible, but not automatic.
  Repair takes truth, accountability, willingness, and a shared commitment to rebuilding safety.
• Women deserve pleasure without shame.
  Reconnecting to your body and your pleasure is not selfish. It is part of feeling alive, empowered, and at home in yourself.
• There is no one-size-fits-all relationship model.
  What matters most is mutual consent, communication, honesty, and alignment between partners.
• Parents need to talk to teens about more than just mechanics.
  Consent, respect, boundaries, communication, and emotional safety all need to be part of the conversation.

About Natassia Miller

Natassia Miller is a sexologist and intimacy coach who helps people create more connected, playful, and fulfilling sex lives. She is the founder of Wonderlust, a New York City-based sexual wellness brand, and her work has been featured in Cosmopolitan, Glamour, GQ, and NBC.

Links

• Natassia Miller Website
• The Reset & Thrive Retreat, Canyon Ranch, Lenox, October 15-18, 2026 
• EricaDiamond.com

Learn More about Your Host

On a global mission to redefine self-care, Erica Diamond is a sought-after media expert, professional speaker, bestselling author, TV host of ZenLIFE on Amazon Prime and Air Canada In-Flight Entertainment, and host of The Erica Diamond Podcast. She is also a certified life and career coach, certified yoga and meditation teacher, and the founder of the award-winning lifestyle platform EricaDiamond.com®, formerly WomenOnTheFence.com®.

Erica Diamond has been named one of the Top 20 Women in Canada, recognized by Forbes for one of the Top 100 Websites for Women, and honoured as part of the PROFIT Hot 50. Offstage, she is a proud mom of two college boys, a self-proclaimed bad cook, and a new drummer.

To learn more about Erica Diamond, visit her website EricaDiamond.com

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