Forewarning by Erin: This post explores some topics that will challenge the ideas and concepts of traditional marriage. If you do not have an open mind beyond the traditional setup of marriage, please save yourself the time and skip this post. It is not that I do not welcome varying opinions and thoughts but it is likely not going to be something you will agree with or can agree with and will likely bring forth negative emotions that I simply do not want you to have to experience. If you have an open mind, and an open heart, read on!