Happy Tuesday.
Today, I decided to open with a quote.
Please read it above.
And then read it again.
What I know as truth after working with women for over twenty years is…
Staying Attached Solely To Outcomes Is Dangerous
What does this mean?
It means that when we look for external validation and subscribe to the notion that we can only be happy IF THIS EXACT THING HAPPENS, this can be detrimental to our happiness.
“If I lose 15 pounds, only then will I look good” or, “If I don’t get that job, I will not be happy.”
Expecting only certain outcomes are very limiting and work against our happiness.
Instead of thinking that happiness has only path for you, realizing there’s more than one path to your happiness is key.
I love this example which depicts the point quite well:
6 + 3 = 9, but so does 5 + 4. There are multiple paths to get to where you are going.
Wishing you all the happy vibes,
Erica
