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May is Mental Health Awareness Month: Rule of 3

May is Mental Health Awareness Month: Rule of 3

May is #MentalHealthAwarenessMonth. In honour of this month and the year we have been living through, I have been sharing tips and strategies daily on how to improve our overall mental health and well-being p.

Today’s tip is the RULE OF 3. If you’re struggling with anxiety or worry, this exercise is simple. And when I was teetering on burnout almost 20 years ago, it was a strategy that my therapist recommended.

It goes like this:
When you’re feeling stressed, you visualize a tree with 3 branches. And you allow yourself to devote energy worrying about only three things at any given time. You assign one worry to each branch. After the tree is full, that’s it, my friends! No additional worries are allowed to take over your mental space.

If there’s a 4th or 9th worry that come to mind, release them. You are only giving yourself mental space and permission for 3 today. So maybe it’s: a work deadline, financial worry, and concern over your child. You’re done.

At first, I thought the rule was too simple to actually be helpful, having to narrow down my concerns each day to just 3. But what it does by forcing you to think about what is stressing you, is it makes you realize that some worries are very solvable. Once you are able to name what’s worrying you, you may be able to start devising a plan. While other worries might be completely out of your control. ESPECIALLY during these COVID times.

I found this strategy very helpful when worry was taking up a lot of my day.

So, the next time you feel anxious, think, “Does it make my tree of three?” And if not, see if you can let it go…

Happy Mindful Monday,

May is Mental Health Awareness Month: Rule of 3

Erica Diamond

Founder

Teaching women how to prioritize SELF-CARE, Erica Diamond is a Certified Life Coach and Certified Yoga & Meditation Teacher, Lifestyle and Parenting Correspondent on Global TV, Founder of Bliss Essential (BlissEssential.co), Professional Speaker, Host of The Erica Diamond Podcast, Course Creator of Busy To Bliss (BusyToBliss.com), Author of the women’s entrepreneurial book 99 Things Women Wish They Knew Before Starting Their Own Business, and Founder & Editor-In-Chief of the Award-Winning Lifestyle Platform EricaDiamond.com® (previously WomenOnTheFence.com®). Erica Diamond has been named to the coveted list of The Top 20 Women in Canada, FORBES Magazine’s Top 100 Sites for Women and a Profit Hot 50 Canadian Company. Erica Diamond was the Spokesperson for National Entrepreneurship Day and is a Huffington Post contributor.

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